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The One Who Builds a Bridge —

Tamakazura’s Way of Living
— With Sandalwood Hydrosol —

In The Tale of Genji,
Tamakazura
is not a figure who easily draws attention.

She is rarely remembered as a tragic heroine,
nor does she move the story forward
through dramatic choices or strong declarations of will.

And yet, the more I return to her story,
the more I find myself thinking this:

Perhaps Tamakazura was
someone who built a bridge.

Her circumstances were never truly favorable.

 

She was placed in situations she could not choose,
her path decided by the intentions and expectations of adults around her.

Because she was a child,
she could neither resist nor refuse.

And still—
she did not break.

Tamakazura carried within her
the best qualities of both her father and her mother.

A natural grace.
An innocence that allowed her to trust others without calculation.
A certain lightness of spirit that remained,
even when she was cornered.

These traits could be seen as weaknesses.
But at the same time,
they were her way of surviving.

She was not simply someone who was helped.

She was someone who, somewhere deep inside,
believed that help would come.

And because of that belief,
she did not lose her core.
She did not grow bitter.

 

Each time she stood on the edge of breaking,
someone appeared to help her.

Perhaps this was not mere coincidence or luck,
but something that reaches only those
who have not completely abandoned their trust in the world.

She did not close herself off.
She did not push forward forcefully.
And she did not disappear either.

In that quiet, balanced way of being,
she gently built bridges
between people.

In Japanese aesthetics,
the fleeting beauty of something that vanishes—
like Yugao, the evening face flower—
has long been cherished.

But Tamakazura teaches us something else.

Fragility alone is not the only form of beauty.

To continue living while carrying wounds,
yet still preserving a part of oneself that trusts the world.

To allow memories to soften,
until one day they move freely,
like the wind.

This is a quiet strength—
one that feels deeply relevant to the times we are entering now.

Tamakazura did not cut herself off from the past.

But neither was she bound by it.

She stood in between—
building a bridge between past and future.

And perhaps that is why the lives of women who come after her,
such as Ōigimi and Ukifune,
shine with such clarity and depth.

Because a bridge existed,
they were able to cross.

Her lack of prominence was not due to a lack of presence.

It was because
she was supporting others.

Instead of stepping forward herself,
she chose to hold the flow steady.

After reflecting on all this,
the scent I found myself wanting nearby
was sandalwood hydrosol.

Not to change my mood.
Not to push myself forward.

But simply
to support the feeling of standing exactly where I am.

A scent that does not urge movement,
but quietly says,
“This is enough for now.”

For those who stand on bridges,
what is needed is not stimulation or healing,
but stability.

I believe Tamakazura represents
a model for the future.

One does not need to assert oneself strongly.
One does not need to be complete.
One can remain unfinished—
and still become a place where others may step safely.

A bridge does not recognize itself as a bridge.

It is only after someone has crossed
that its presence becomes clear.

Tamakazura was that kind of person.

And that role—
quiet, unseen, yet essential—
continues to be passed on,
even now.
 

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